Secret Meet is a credit-based dating site: you buy credits and spend them per message, per photo opened, per contact exchanged, rather than paying a flat monthly fee. Its Trustpilot rating is 3.7 out of 5 across 2,502 reviews, but that average hides the interesting part. Fifty-two percent are five stars and twenty-five percent are one star, with almost nothing in between.
That split, and the pricing model behind it, is what this page is about.
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What Secret Meet is
A credit-based dating and chat platform. Reviewers name the operator as Bliskasoft Corp., listed at an address in Las Vegas which one reviewer describes as a virtual address rather than a physical office.
It is not a sugar dating site, despite the name landing near them in search results. There is no arrangement structure, no allowance framing. It is general dating with a pay-per-action pricing model.
One thing worth stating: the Secret Meets website returns an error when we try to read it directly, so everything here comes from Trustpilot and third-party reviews rather than from Secret Meet's own pages. We would rather tell you that than present second-hand information as though we had checked it ourselves.
What the reviews actually show
Checked 10 September 2026 on Trustpilot: 2,502 reviews, TrustScore 3.7 out of 5.
| Rating | Share of reviews |
|---|---|
| 5 star | 52% |
| 4 star | 11% |
| 3 star | 8% |
| 2 star | 4% |
| 1 star | 25% |
A 3.7 average sounds unremarkable. This distribution is not. Sixty-three percent positive and twenty-five percent one-star, with a thin middle, is a U-shape, and a U-shape usually means people are having two quite different experiences of the same product rather than a moderate experience of it.
We cannot tell you with certainty why. What we can tell you is what the one-star reviewers consistently say.
Cost. Reviewers write that buying credits and chatting "can quickly become extremely expensive." One forum reviewer claims spending over $1,200 in credits before being able to exchange contact details, and around $25 to open photos. We have not been able to verify those figures and they come from a single source, so treat them as one person's account rather than a price list.
Distance. "Most of the men on here are from the states I would never get to meet them." On a platform where each message costs, a match hundreds of miles away is an expensive conversation that was never going anywhere.
Technical problems. Repeated logouts, dropped sessions, profile bios cut off mid-sentence, searches returning nothing.
Doubts about who is replying. At least one reviewer describes "ridiculous, AI generated questions and dialog" from matches. Other review sites go further and suggest profiles may not be real people at all. Those are allegations made by reviewers, not something we have verified, and they are the kind of claim that is very hard to prove from outside.
What should also be said
Secret Meet replies to roughly 98% of its negative reviews, usually within 48 hours. That is a genuinely high response rate, and it is not what a company that has taken the money and disappeared does. Whatever else is going on, someone there is answering complaints.
And more than half of two and a half thousand reviewers gave it five stars. Any honest summary has to include that.
How credit-based dating sites work
On a subscription site, you pay a fixed amount per month. The platform makes the same money whether you send four messages or four hundred. Its commercial interest is in you being satisfied enough to renew and, ideally, in you meeting someone and telling your friends.
On a credit site, you pay per action. Every message costs. Opening a photo costs. Exchanging contact details costs, often a lot. The platform's revenue is a direct function of how much conversation happens before anything is concluded.
Look at what those two structures reward. A subscription site profits from your success. A credit site profits from your conversation continuing, and specifically from it continuing on the platform, because the moment you exchange numbers the billing stops.
None of this requires anyone to behave dishonestly. It is simply what the pricing structure pays for. But it does mean the incentives are not aligned with yours, and it explains the shape of that review distribution better than anything else: people who spent a little and enjoyed the chat leave five stars, and people who spent a lot before working out how the model worked leave one star.
The practical test for any site like this: find out what it costs to actually exchange contact details with one person, and compare that to a month of a subscription site. If nobody will tell you that number up front, that is itself the answer.
Is Secret Meet a scam?
We are not going to tell you it is, and we would be on shaky ground if we did.
Several review sites do use that word. One concludes it "leans more towards SecretMeet.com being a scam than legit" and describes it as "an Ai chatting platform". A dating forum calls it "dubious at best, probably a scam" and "a money sucking business." Those are their assessments and we are reporting them, not adopting them.
Set against that: 1,300 people rated it five stars, and the company answers nearly all of its complaints. A scam does not usually look like that.
The honest verdict is narrower and more useful than a yes or no. Secret Meet is a credit-based dating site whose pricing model can get expensive quickly, whose reviews are sharply divided, and about which serious questions have been raised regarding who is on the other end of conversations. If you use it, know what a completed contact exchange costs before you start, and set a limit you are willing to lose.
If you are specifically looking for a sugar arrangement, it is the wrong sort of site regardless. It is not built for that. Seeking banned sugar dating in 2022 and Sugarbook still permits it; both of those pages cover platforms actually aimed at this.
If what you want is discreet dating
Some people arrive at a site like this searching for hidden dating sites or a hidden dating app, which is a different requirement from a cheap one.
Wanting privacy is normal and it is not a warning sign. Plenty of people have entirely ordinary reasons for keeping their dating life separate from the rest of their life: work, family, a community where it would cost them something. That is a legitimate need and any decent platform should support it.
The distinction that matters is not where a conversation happens but what gets asked for in it. Someone wanting to keep things private is normal. Someone asking for your bank details, a gift card, or a fee to "verify" you is not, and that holds on any app, hidden or otherwise. More on how discretion and safety fit together.
A practical note: discretion is better served by a platform that lets you talk properly without handing over personal contact details than by one that hides its icon on your phone.
How to check any dating site before you pay
Five things, all of which take under ten minutes.
Who operates it? Look for a company name and a real address. A virtual office is not disqualifying on its own, but a site that makes its operator hard to identify has made a choice about that.
How does it charge? Subscription or credits. If credits, find out what one completed contact exchange costs. This is the single most useful number and the hardest to find.
Can you get a refund? Read that section of the terms before paying, not after.
Is verification free and run by the platform? Verification behind a paywall gets skipped by most members, which makes it close to useless as a signal. Real verification is initiated by the platform, done in the app, and costs the user nothing.
Does the platform touch your money? Almost none of them do, including us. Anywhere claiming to hold, protect or guarantee money between two people is describing something that does not exist.
On the last two: Sugary Match is completely free for sugar babies: no membership, no fees, nothing to pay at any point, and verification is three steps, photo match, ID document and phone number, run by us, in the app, at no cost. We do not accept bots, and we do not handle payments between people. That is one option among several, and the five questions above are worth asking of all of them, us included.
FAQ
What is Secret Meet? A credit-based dating and chat site. You buy credits and spend them per message, per photo and per contact exchange, rather than paying monthly. Reviewers name the operator as Bliskasoft Corp., based in Las Vegas.
Is Secret Meet legit? It is a real, operating site with over 2,500 Trustpilot reviews and a 3.7 rating, and the company responds to nearly all complaints. Reviews are sharply split, and several review sites have raised serious doubts. Know what you are spending before you start.
Is Secret Meet a sugar daddy site? No. It is general dating with pay-per-action pricing. There is no arrangement or allowance structure.
How much does Secret Meet cost? It sells credits rather than subscriptions, so there is no single monthly figure, and we could not verify the per-action prices directly. Reviewers describe it becoming expensive quickly.
Why are the reviews so mixed? Fifty-two percent five-star and twenty-five percent one-star, with a thin middle. That pattern usually reflects two different experiences of the same product, which on a pay-per-message site tends to track how much someone spent before understanding the model.
Are the profiles on Secret Meet real? Some reviewers allege AI-generated conversation and question whether profiles are genuine. We have not verified those claims and cannot confirm or refute them.
What should I look for in a dating site instead? Who runs it, how it charges, whether refunds exist, whether verification is free and platform-run, and whether it touches your money.
The useful thing to take from Secret Meet is not a verdict on Secret Meet. It is that a pricing model tells you what a platform is optimised for, and that is knowable before you spend anything. Sites that charge by the message are optimised for messages.
Sugary Match is completely free for sugar babies: no membership, no fees, nothing to pay at any point. Every account is verified with a photo match, an ID document and a phone number, at no cost to anyone. Have a look, or read how to become a sugar baby first.